IM is a wonderful invention. But like any benign gift, it gets abused and morphs into something far more sinister. Now, with it's proliferation on Facebook, Google and just about everything else, there is virtually no hiding from anyone - particularly the person you knew in high school who wants to "reconnect" (see Get a Life Lame Off). We pit this against the insecure instant messenger, whom you have no choice but ignoring, which of course only fuels their incessant neediness.   CLICK THE LAMER !